Okay, I need advice.

What should I do to my hair?

First, Do a digital perm to curl all of my hair because right now, it's curled inside and straight outside.

Second, treatment and layer it and continue blow drying to make me look sane enough.

Or, treatment and cut it and do a digital perm when my hair is more relaxed,say in 3 weeks time.

You tell me.
Because right now, I keep bunning it and I am this close to being labelled an ah-ma, indian style. Or maybe that's me just being paranoid.

One more thing, dun call me a minah. Because I am anything but. First off, I take pride going to another more respectable lifestyle when circumstance would have landed me in another. And I credit it to sheer willpower to get where I am.
The definition of minah is someone with a fucked family and someone who is too lazy to take control and make choices with their lifestyle. Oh, with no eyebrows.

So if you dun know me well enough, please. Do me and you both a favour and stop that.

Thanks. *insert friendly smile.