I think i need to have a say about this topic, stereotyping.

I am so sick and tired of people just lumping all the experiences they have with certain people and just simply come to a simple conclusion, 'They are all like that.' And i for one, just fucking refuse to fall under the same category. I refuse to think that all guys are after pussy and not at all about what's inside. Because that is not true. I know a lot of guys i have met who would much rather talk to girls rather than just head for a goal. Sure, if u give a fish a worm, they would gobble it up. So, dun potray urself as cheap and it's fine. My mum always tell me, 'It's not about what i wear, it's about how i wear it'. So it doesn't matter if u are all covered because if u talk cheap, u are. Personally, i like revealing tops. And even if guys look, not one have really dared to come up to me with a cheap pick up line. Because i dun act it. U wanna get in my pants? Fuck off. Then again, i would never tell myself to lose faith in guys just because of a few assholes like these. Then how the fuck am i ever gonna get a husband who i can trust? The cynic in me would sometimes rear its ugly head out but i refuse to conform to these people who just cannot trust their partner because they know that 'they are all like that'. Bullshit.

Because nice guys or girls might be mean to some people and bad girls or guys are nice to some people. Girls, who are viewed as party girls might be a domestic goddess to their spouse. Guys who are jerks to some girls might be stuttering lovesick bunnies to others. So when they say,
' All (insert word here) are (insert word here)'. I say, you met the whole world ah? To know all the people in the world? Even the word generally cannot be used in stereotyping because what if some nice unlucky person is categorised in the same group as the frowned upon? It's not bloody fair.

I have been stereotyped too many times that i have grown used to it and just wait for the ones who are worth it to step up.

'That girl, party animal sia, confirm can pakai,' then get pissed off because he didn't get to pop any. Standard.From 'Her face like want to kena slap sia, fucking irritating high-and-mighty-face' to,'Zuuul! when do u wanna catch up?'

I have felt how it felt so much that i do not want to think like that about other people. Maybe this is a mistake, i dun know, but i still have faith in people. Yes, i still have faith in 'happilly ever afters', 'good guy in disguise', 'good girl in disguise', honesty and trust.


Call me naive, call me young. I'd rather be that than jaded and old.

You know what's the most irritating part? People say it with so much confidence as if there would be no point to argue because they just refuse to believe tat people are not so bad. One good example, my brother confidently said,'All girls can be bought'. I am sure many can but not all. I am bloody sure of that. Eventhough i use this mantra whenever i am pissed off with guys, even 'All guys are jerks' is very unfair and not true. Though it feels so good to be saying it, i know it ain't exactly true. 'All pious people are extremists'. Nonsense. The best stereotyping is the lack of faith of love actually existing in couples. I am sure most are actually lacking the real meaning of love but how the hell are u so confident that these two actually dun love each other. And why must their love fit ur description of love?

I dun know. Just not a fan of confident, stereotyping people. And ranting about how the world just cannot be tailored to fit my ideal place to live where negativity are micro-sized compared to the positive energy. Ahh... the world would be my utopia.