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Thursday, August 10, 2006

This post that i am about to write is purely fictional and any resemblance to the living or the dead is purely coincidental.
A factor that seemed to have invaded the small capacity of my brain that caused me to ponder over the many aspects of the human mind and emotions and why people have made the natural bonding or etwining of two indiduals to be so complexed right now that some have even decided to shy away and doubt this process, we now call relationships. No, not friendship, or family but the coming together of a man and a woman.
It used to be so simple:
Man meets woman.
Man likes woman.
Man and woman become one.
Woman reproduces.
Man feeds baby and woman.
They live happily ever after.
Now, women are demanding equal rights. I have my fair share of feministic views too but i say who are we kidding? At the end of the day, we do need a cuddle for someone with testosterone anyway. Unless u prefer boobs, then lucky u. But i still prefer guys so...
Anyway,as i was saying, i really think that if u really like the guy, and he treats u right,certain things he do, things that u don't find is so significant, give him the winning hand. Sometimes, it is much wiser to just relax, there's no need to hold on to your pride so much so that everyone starts to shy away from you. Standing up for your rights is one thing, taking everything in as punches to your ego is just wrong. I see a huge increase in girls being so damn reluctant to give in to people, it is saddening. Whatever you do, however modern your thinking is, you can never eliminate the fact that women want to conform for guys who respect them.
Even men give women the benefit of bending things a lil here and there. Like, waiting patiently for girls to window shop for 4 hours just spent ogling away at things they would not buy instead of grabbing a beer and talking about PS2 and soccer with their mates. They would much rather spend their time seeing how blardie excited their adorable one gets. Not to mention, how happy we get which would lead to a much better time at night.
Note that this does not apply to jerks who cheat and demand stupid things like making things difficult for you when all you want is to spend a day in town with ur girlfriends.
So, i say, chill girls, if he's worth it, u can afford to let him win when he is just being cranky after work and just wants to keep quiet and watch football with you in his arms. Even when all u want to do is bonk his blardie brains out.